I was so grateful to be at my mom and dad's house when I found out about being pregnant. Like I said in my first post, my feelings were not purely celebratory. It was a hard, emotionally exhausting day for me. And when I'm feeling emotionally vulnerable, my mom is the best person to be with. I told her I was pregnant, and then I burst into tears. She was excited, of course, but she put my feelings first. She was present, understanding, comforting, and listened without judgement. I really needed her that day.
That conversation, and the letter Mom sent me today, was encouraging and hopeful for me. Being reminded of the loving people I'm surrounded by is always a good thing.
And sometimes, snail mail is so much more fun than email. I miss it.
P.S. Don't worry, Shan- if I make this blog public someday, I'll delete out my address. (-:
Phew. You know me too well...that was my first thought. I hope I am able to be there for my kids as Mom has been for us.
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